Courteney Cox’s IVF story might not do anything to help you deal with your own infertility, but we hope it helps you realize that you are not alone in your struggle to conceive.
Pregnancy or IVF in older age becomes harder, as Courteney Cox, aka Monica of F.R.I.E.N.D.S fame, points: “It’s a fact that after a certain age you have less of a chance.” And she, like many other people, was not open to alternative options such as surrogacy or adoption.
Cox suffered several miscarriages and underwent two cycles of IVF before she gave birth to her baby girl just before she turned 40.
Life imitates Art
For the actor, life imitated art. Just as Monica struggled with fertility issues on the popular TV show, Cox struggled for years in her real life, before she could embrace the joys of parenthood.
It was found that Cox had the MTHFR gene mutation, which dictated how her body methylates. It was a rare disorder in which her antibodies would attack the fetus.
“I suffered miscarriages, my dad died of a really rare cancer, and depression runs in my family, which made my doctor think I should get this gene checked out,” she said in an interview.
She was able to get pregnant but could not keep it.
It’s difficult but we just try again
Cox and her husband, David Arquette, candidly discussed their struggles on the path to parenthood. “I get pregnant pretty easily, but I have a hard time keeping them,” she said.
Despite having miscarried several times, Cox admitted that they recovered fast and tried again.
We “bounce back pretty quickly,” she told People Magazine. “I don’t say it’s a walk in the park. But what are you going to do? We just try again.”
Courteney Cox’s IVF Decision
“Well it was really weird because everyone in my family has kids. I mean, they pop out like it’s nobody’s business,” she reportedly said. “No one in my family has a problem. So to me, I just thought this would not be a problem at all.”
Eventually, they thought of IVF and they found the first round to be “nerve-racking.”
“I decided to do in vitro and I did that twice,” she said.
But to stop her body’s adverse reaction to the fetus, she would give herself shots of heparin everyday — that’s a blood thinner. She acknowledges that it’s lucky that the high cost of IVF is within her financial means.
“In vitro is a wonderful thing that people can do in this day and age, and I’m lucky enough to be able to afford it,” Cox told Good Housekeeping.
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Comedy through pain
While her own world was distraught with pain, Cox had to make other people laugh, and it was extremely difficult at times.
“That was hard sometimes. Like I remember one time I just had a miscarriage and Rachel was giving birth. It was like that same time. Oh my God, it was terrible having to be funny.”
Courteney’s daughter, Coco, turned 13 this year.
What changed her life?
Once her problem was discovered, and she learned how to tackle it, Cox said her whole life changed.
“I found out how I could absorb nutrients and protect myself from toxins,” she said. “I used to get so tired and would literally crumble after I ate something. Now I give myself a shot of methylated B-12 daily.”
She changed her diet, added the right supplements and “felt so much better and had more energy.”
She also changed her diet when she was pregnant with her daughter Coco, and said, “I took folic acid like you’re supposed to, but I learned later that it wasn’t good for me. I have to take a methylfolate and methylated B, and then I can absorb it.”
There is still a stigma associated with infertility and when a woman of celebrity reveals that she has battled the same war as you, it might be helpful. Thank you Courteney Cox!